Loud Family

Just had a conversation with my mum, about my 2 years old cousin. Her parents live together with my grandpa so we visit them regularly. My mum was pissed because her mum claimed that my mum was too loud when she played with my cousin so now my cousin seems to be afraid and they start to avoid my mum. This happens to my bro and dad as well, I am not sure about my sis though. The fact is that growing up as the youngest child under their care, I have to claim that all of them, including me is loud when we speak. My dad is the loudest; there is difficulty in differentiating whether he is scolding, lecturing or normal speaking.

As the head of the family is loud, there is little doubt that the rest of the family are loud too. The funny thing is we do not know about it. I only know about my loudness after I got to know my gf and started to correct myself. It was also when I started to observe the rest of my family. My bro is not that loud but my mum says that he resembles my dad the most among the siblings so my cousin is afraid of him too. ...Very funny...

From a more negative and superstitious angle about my cousin's issue, I believe everyone has a certain aversion among their looks. It intensifies when that person is not smiling or has a bad day; it is more obvious on people with dark skins. My dad's skin is very dark, followed by my bro then me, our faces have a certain aversion when we are not smiling. There was an incident, where I took my cousin's pacifier away from her mouth and she immediately ran to 1 corner and cried(or act like crying), just like she saw my dad or bro. She stops once I put the pacifier back in her mouth. I think my face's aversion scared her when I took the pacifier off. She likes to play with my gf, my sister-in-law and my other cousins where they all have fairer skins. ...Very funny...
posted by Estan @ 9:19:00 PM (GMT+08:00).